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TAMARA: Shall we go through the notes we’ve made from our research into loneliness now, Dev?
DEV OK, Tamara. It’s been a real eye-opener. I had no idea that loneliness has been increasing steadily for the last 20 years.
TAMARA I know. And it’s the same all over the world. The downside of a modern lifestyle, I guess.
DEV Did you come to any conclusions about what the reasons for the increase are?
TAMARA Well, I’d assumed it was mainly an issue for the elderly, but in fact it’s something which affects young people just as much.
DEV So nothing really to do with longer lifespans. What about social media? In my case, far from making me feel isolated, it actually does the opposite. it?
TAMARA It definitely does more good than harm. I’d say loneliness has a lot to do with the way cities are designed. People living in high flats with not much opportunity to speak to their neighbours
DEV I think you right (21/22)
TAMARA Another possible reason is that people are having fewer children and don’t live in large extended family groups.
DEV But in this country anyway, that all changed decades ago. And yet loneliness is a more recent problem.
TAMARA I suppose so. A more plausible explanation is that people are having to move around for work and often end up living miles away from their family and friends.
DEV That’s true. (21/22)
TAMARA Looking at the studies on health risks and loneliness, there are claims that loneliness has as much impact as smoking 15 cigarettes a day.
DEV Or similar to the risks caused by obesity. But I’m not sure there’s enough evidence for some of these claims.
TAMARA Well, what about that one in Finland, which showed that loneliness increased the risk of cancer by about 10%? And those findings have been supported by other studies too. (23/24)
DEV You’re right about that one. (23/24) I was actually thinking of the studies on dementia. Some found no association between loneliness and dementia, and others found the opposite.
TAMARA Not exactly reliable, then. There’s been a lot of research on cardiovascular disease and whether loneliness contributes to that.
DEV Yes, I read that it was hard to reach a judgment, as the definition of loneliness varied quite a lot, and the responses from participants were too subjective. But there’s no doubt that loneliness contributes to a weakened immune system. (23/24)
TAMARA Unquestionably. The data on that is sound. (23/24)
DEV What did you think about the evolutionary theory of loneliness?
TAMARA Well I thought the idea that loneliness evolved because it motivated people to be with other people is quite convincing. Survival often depended on group cooperation.
DEV But I don think there is enough evidence to claim that there must be a group of neurons in our brains which influence social behaviour by making us feel bad when we’re alone.
TAMARA There are a few studies which support the theory, but not conclusively enough. More evidence is needed. (25/26)
DEV And anyway, this theory’s not really useful when it comes to solving the problem of loneliness today. (25/26)
TAMARA True.
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DEV Should we look at the relationship between loneliness and mental health now?
TAMARA OK. So, loneliness and depression are clearly related and that’s been recognised by various governments around the world. But unlike depression, loneliness has no recognised clinical form. (27)
DEV There’s no available diagnosis or effective treatment and that’s not likely to change. (27)
TAMARA I don’t think so either. I was thinking we should start our presentation with an example from our own experience. I like to talk about how lonely I was when I started university being away from home for the first time and all that.
DEV Good idea. Everyone will be able to relate to that although a lot of students were probably too embarrassed to admit to it. (28)
TAMARA Yeah. We could discuss ways of dealing with loneliness as well, like just talking to strangers.
DEV Loads of studies have shown that interactions with shop assistants and bar staff make people feel more optimistic and relaxed.
TAMARA I don’t know about that, but it must make people feel more connected with their community. (29)
DEV True, although you need to be a certain kind of person to be able to just strike up a conversation.
TAMARA Good point. We should say something about solitude and how being alone and being lonely aren’t the same thing. It’s strange the way some people can’t stand being by themselves while others love it. (30)
DEV Yeah, the research shows a certain amount of solitude is beneficial for wellbeing, which I appreciate, but being alone isn’t something I actually like. I’d never choose to go on holiday alone, for example.
TAMARA Me neither.
DEV Well, let’s not… you
